Happy Mothers' Day!
I'm spending my second mothers' day away from my children. In fact, I'm writing this post on May 5; I'm about to join up with two of my girlfriends and we're hoping on a plane to Paris (well, technically Germany and then France). There we'll meet up with another friend who's already there. Just us girls, just having an awesome time!
The kiddos are hanging out with Blake and various wonderful "mothers" in the meantime. Blake, then our new nanny Kirsty, then my mom, then blake, then blake's parents, then blake, then Kirsty again, and then I'm back.
Thanks a million to my mom and Heidi: a) for making my trip possible, and b) for loving our kids ALL THE TIME. The kids, Blake, and I are SO blessed to have both of you take such active roles in Kaylee and Ethan's lives. It is awesome, and wonderful, and hilarious to have them come home from a day with one of you having learned new things and repeating your phrases. Just yesterday, Ethan told me that I was going to the "apple tower" due to the brief Parisian education my mom gave them last thursday.
Thanks mom, and thanks Heidi. Our kids are going to grow up to be better people because they have not just a mom, but also two amazing grandmas who love them so, so much.
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Saturday, April 20, 2013
Tulips
On Tuesday, my mom, the kids, and I went up to see the tulips. Most of the pictures were taken by my mom and I haven't gotten those yet, but here are a few I took on my phone.
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Riding a tractor around tulip town. this picture cracks me up 'cuz the kids are so weird looking! (she typed with love) |
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they grow more than 100 different varieties of tulips at tulip town. amazing to see. |
Lunch was a little rough that day (over 50 minutes to get our food) but the kids were AMAZING while we waited so it wasn't that bad, and the rest of the day was fantastic. thanks for suggesting the outing and for driving mom!
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
katie and brent
I haven't posted in forever, I know. There are many reasons for this, many of which follow the ever-present theme of busy-ness. another reason is that life has been so great and horrible all at the same time and it's hard to feel and wrestle with both emotions so intensely. the great parts of life have been all the fun things we're up to around here. kids are happy, we've done a couple triathlons and whatnot, jobs are going well, life is good. the horrible has been the death and dying. there's nothing that I can write here that can honorably sum up either Katie or Brent or their deaths. The facts are that their deaths were rough, they were un-related, they came so close together, and they both affected Blake's group of guy friends so much. Brent's memorial was wonderful. Katie's is this weekend and I know it's going to be amazing too. The world is a little worse off without them.
It gets you to thinking about all the loss in the world. The boston marathon bombing has been rough as well; I think because although we don't run marathons, both Blake and I run, so it's hit a little close to home. Later this month will be the third anniversary of my cousin's death as well. It's kind of easy to be depressed, and hard to write about how great life is, although really, life has been so great.
So this is my sad, mournful post. Next I'll post pictures of tulips and maybe Easter and other fun, wonderful things. But I also wanted to recognize the loss, and ask for your prayers for Blake, for Ryan, Ryan, Kennedy, Michal, all the boys, and all the families. Thanks.
It gets you to thinking about all the loss in the world. The boston marathon bombing has been rough as well; I think because although we don't run marathons, both Blake and I run, so it's hit a little close to home. Later this month will be the third anniversary of my cousin's death as well. It's kind of easy to be depressed, and hard to write about how great life is, although really, life has been so great.
So this is my sad, mournful post. Next I'll post pictures of tulips and maybe Easter and other fun, wonderful things. But I also wanted to recognize the loss, and ask for your prayers for Blake, for Ryan, Ryan, Kennedy, Michal, all the boys, and all the families. Thanks.
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
accident free!
Today was Kaylee's first accident-free day! 10 days in; not too bad! I'd be lying if I called her potty trained, as I don't actually expect that tomorrow will also be accident-free, but it was still really exciting today! She insisted on wearing her undies for nap-time instead of a diaper, and she kept them dry for her whole nap. We have yet to master pooping in the potty (she didn't poop all day today) and neither she nor ethan are sleeping in undies at night, but... today was still awesome. we celebrated by watching part of beauty and the beast on youtube and eating ice cream. tomorrow she wants to watch lion king and have popcorn if she has another accident-free day. we'll see!
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
potty training cont
well, potty training continues, as I'm sure it will for awhile. although I called day 1 a "raging success," I would have to downgrade to "progress" at this point. basically, if we sit kaylee on the potty every half hour we're pretty good. we can stretch that to 45-60 minutes and usually make it. but... that's not exactly how we'd like to live our life. when we sit her on the potty if she has to go she does. but we are waiting for the critical step where she tells us she has to pee. hasn't happened yet.
ethan on the other hand is really mastering the remaining potty skills (tearing toilet paper, undies and pants back on... although currently his undies are backwards :)). kaylee's actually pretty good at those things too. I'd say ethan is all the way ready for preschool, so that's nice to feel that one of them is. we'll just keep working with kaylee. it's not so bad, it just means I have to actually start taking the diaper bag with me again instead of just leaving in the trunk of the car when I take them places. could be much worse! if nothing else, I bet our laundry/water bill is not going up as much as our diaper bill is going down. :)
ethan on the other hand is really mastering the remaining potty skills (tearing toilet paper, undies and pants back on... although currently his undies are backwards :)). kaylee's actually pretty good at those things too. I'd say ethan is all the way ready for preschool, so that's nice to feel that one of them is. we'll just keep working with kaylee. it's not so bad, it just means I have to actually start taking the diaper bag with me again instead of just leaving in the trunk of the car when I take them places. could be much worse! if nothing else, I bet our laundry/water bill is not going up as much as our diaper bill is going down. :)
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Willawong Station
The zoo was super fun the other day. We saw many fun things, starting off with the four new baby lions. Super cute. but despite the lions' cuteness, the highlight was willawong station, which is apparently one of the largest collections of free-flying parrots on the west coast. who knew? Anyways, enjoy the pics... (all pics by annemarie)
Willawong Station!
checkin' out the map of the zoo |
waiting in line to see the lion cubs; a zoo employee brought around a lion pelt to pet and feel. |
Willawong Station!
I bought three seed sticks to start and didn't even have a chance to hand them out or put my change away before I had company. |
two visitors as I try to hand a stick off to blake and show the kids |
Heidi did not care for this visitor on her head. :D |
I removed it for her and another came to check out the seed stick she was holding. |
Most of the birds are cockatiels, which I had as pets growing up. But there are other birds too. |
Kaylee was not so sure about this bird on her seed stick. |
It was a little safer on mommy's shoulder. |
o. m. g. there is a bird on your head mommy. is this okay? |
oh $/*! that bird is on my head now. this is NOT okay. |
it's okay kaylee, it's okay. it is just standing there, it wants to be your hat. (secretly I am wondering what the likelihood is that it will poop in her hair) |
I suppose this is just how it is now, birds standing on your head and whatnot. |
two new seed sticks... |
and papa gets a little bird love. |
daddy and ethan never got birds on their heads. |
but everyone else did! |
afterwards we rolled some change down one of those spinning change rolling thingies. |
and then kaylee went potty in the big potty (so did ethan) so we just had to buy some kettlecorn which we ate for most of the rest of the trip. life is rough being 2. |
Sunday, February 24, 2013
potty training
We have both green diapers and purple diapers. We used to buy them for different purposes, but then amazon subscribe and save kept just sending us too many and so we had a bunch and we just used them both whenever. The green ones are size 5, and work with either kid, the purples are size 4, so we prefer to use them on kaylee. anyways, we decided to take advantage of their different colors and start telling kaylee she needed to be potty trained soon. We are approaching a smidge over 6 months since we potty trained ethan, and just about exactly 6 months until preschool starts. Ethan's got the no accidents thing down pretty well, but the wiping and undies and pants back on part of the whole deal needs some work. So if Ethan still needs a bit of work, and it's taken 6 months to get here and there's 6 months until preschool starts... it's time to get cracking on kaylee. we're not overly concerned because she's older and she's already got the pants back on skills going kinda okay and we were kinda relaxed with the pace of teaching ethan, but still... time to start.
So we told kaylee, these purple diapers are for day time, and the green ones are only for sleeping. I cancelled my amazon order of more purple diapers and told her, when we run out of purple diapers, you have to wear undies. Then time passed, we used a few purple diapers every day, we reminded her occasionally...
And then, SURPRISE! yesterday we pulled out the last purple diaper. oh @#$! we said. I guess we really need to do this. It would seem our own purple diaper counting skills were lacking, and we hadn't quite realized there weren't still more in the closet. but here it was, the time was upon us.
Annemarie is in town and we'd planned to go to the zoo, so we slapped that last purple diaper on her butt (kaylee's not annemarie's) and headed out. While at the zoo every time Blake took ethan potty I took kaylee potty. we had one success, one failure, and some pee in the diaper (but we hadn't told her not to pee in the diaper, we were busy talking up wearing undies later in the day).
As we drove toward home, Ethan fell asleep in the car, so we stopped by QFC and I took Kaylee in to buy some special juice, more milk, and some special donut holes. We came home, let Ethan keep sleeping in the car, and offered kaylee some juice. juice, juice, juice. keep drinking that juice kaylee. the concept is, if you pump them full of juice (or any liquid) and sit them on the potty every half hour, they end up succeeding often and learn the sensation of having to pee. we also grabbed the monster potties out of the garage/basement. (they are little stand alone potties that you have to empty and wash each time, so awhile ago we told ethan he needed to graduate to the real potty when we got tired of cleaning those, but they seem to be a good transitional step; kaylee prefers them, and they also let you the parent know if there's any success, even if it's a tiny tiny tiny tiny amount!)
Anyways, how did it go? Raging success. We did not think kaylee was ready. Last time we thought she was ready and ethan was not. This means we're 0 for 3 for predicting our children's potty training readiness. whatever, we'll take it. Kaylee had no accidents, even later that night when we went over to the peltons' for dinner. Yes, we took her to pee every half hour, but 80% of the time she managed to eek some little bit of pee out, and no accidents. she even pooped in the potty which has been a big struggle for her in the past. (thank you donut holes, which were reserved as a special poop-prize!)
Anyways, today's day two. there's lots of progress yet to be made, like her telling us when she has to go etc, but... I think we've begun.
hurrah!
no pictures are included for your benefit. that and I didn't take any.
coming soon: pictures of our trip to the zoo including some awesome ones at willawong (willawog?) station... the australian bird part.
So we told kaylee, these purple diapers are for day time, and the green ones are only for sleeping. I cancelled my amazon order of more purple diapers and told her, when we run out of purple diapers, you have to wear undies. Then time passed, we used a few purple diapers every day, we reminded her occasionally...
And then, SURPRISE! yesterday we pulled out the last purple diaper. oh @#$! we said. I guess we really need to do this. It would seem our own purple diaper counting skills were lacking, and we hadn't quite realized there weren't still more in the closet. but here it was, the time was upon us.
Annemarie is in town and we'd planned to go to the zoo, so we slapped that last purple diaper on her butt (kaylee's not annemarie's) and headed out. While at the zoo every time Blake took ethan potty I took kaylee potty. we had one success, one failure, and some pee in the diaper (but we hadn't told her not to pee in the diaper, we were busy talking up wearing undies later in the day).
As we drove toward home, Ethan fell asleep in the car, so we stopped by QFC and I took Kaylee in to buy some special juice, more milk, and some special donut holes. We came home, let Ethan keep sleeping in the car, and offered kaylee some juice. juice, juice, juice. keep drinking that juice kaylee. the concept is, if you pump them full of juice (or any liquid) and sit them on the potty every half hour, they end up succeeding often and learn the sensation of having to pee. we also grabbed the monster potties out of the garage/basement. (they are little stand alone potties that you have to empty and wash each time, so awhile ago we told ethan he needed to graduate to the real potty when we got tired of cleaning those, but they seem to be a good transitional step; kaylee prefers them, and they also let you the parent know if there's any success, even if it's a tiny tiny tiny tiny amount!)
Anyways, how did it go? Raging success. We did not think kaylee was ready. Last time we thought she was ready and ethan was not. This means we're 0 for 3 for predicting our children's potty training readiness. whatever, we'll take it. Kaylee had no accidents, even later that night when we went over to the peltons' for dinner. Yes, we took her to pee every half hour, but 80% of the time she managed to eek some little bit of pee out, and no accidents. she even pooped in the potty which has been a big struggle for her in the past. (thank you donut holes, which were reserved as a special poop-prize!)
Anyways, today's day two. there's lots of progress yet to be made, like her telling us when she has to go etc, but... I think we've begun.
hurrah!
no pictures are included for your benefit. that and I didn't take any.
coming soon: pictures of our trip to the zoo including some awesome ones at willawong (willawog?) station... the australian bird part.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
not napping
my children are not napping today. this is no good. it means I don't get anything done. no work, no cleaning, no to-do-list-checking-off. at the moment they're playing in the mural room / hallway and I feel that if I leave the office and walk past them their self-sufficient play will end. So... here's a random post of the things on my mind! (it occurs to me as I type this that I could remote into work and get a few things done now too, but that's not as fun so... I'll procrastinate on that, but blame it on my children. clever, eh?)
They didn't nap yesterday either, which resulted in melt-downs at night. When blake got home I told him I needed half-an-hour of kid-free time, which he okayed. then he came upstairs a bit later and said, "we're going outside." when I later looked for him in our front and back yards I discovered that really meant go for a walk. So I walked our usual walk route backwards and met up with them. The kids were in good moods by then, and Ethan fell asleep in the stroller on our way back, but blake told me the reason they went on a walk was because while they were finishing up dinner, kaylee decided to intentionally spill her milk on the floor and while she was making a further mess of the milk (splashing etc), ethan announced he had to go potty, which he did, but then did not put his undies back on, and was trying to scoot all over our white carpet on his not-wiped butt. Now, if that doesn't prove that blake loves me SO much, that he just took them on a walk by himself instead of interrupting my half-hour of kid-free time... well I don't know what does. that's true love.
speaking of love, the kids' favorite movie right now is the Lion King (perhaps because it's one of like 4 movies we own, and the only full-length movie they've ever seen). I am trying to teach them (okay, really just kaylee) the songs. Can You Feel the Love Tonight? Gonna Be a Mighty King... etc. It's going to be awesome. Especially if I can get them to do a little timon and pumba. I'm pretty sure my brothers and I can all recite at least 90% of that movie...
we did a triathlon the other day. we = blake and I, plus his cousin Elise and her friend. I got 15th place for women, and blake got 23rd for men. please, do not ask how many men and women competed, or I'd have to tell you 16 and 25. not quite like the good ol' days when brianne and I would get 2nd and 3rd for women in our age group (usually out of 3 or 4) and go home with trophies... but it was awesome. we didn't drown, or fall off our bikes (which I did manage to do at the last indoor triathlon I did so...) or get hit by a car on our run (it was at night, headlamps were required).
The supports under our island were installed today. that's the last of our "restoration" from the november flood. I signed the it's-all-done paperwork too, so we're really all done w/ that!
blake and kaylee got to go to a pajama party for kennedy's 2.5 year old party. ethan and I were a little under the weather, so we had to stay home which was a bummer, but check out this great picture our friend joelle took:
the kids are done self-entertaining now. I guess it's time to go make some cookies with them!
They didn't nap yesterday either, which resulted in melt-downs at night. When blake got home I told him I needed half-an-hour of kid-free time, which he okayed. then he came upstairs a bit later and said, "we're going outside." when I later looked for him in our front and back yards I discovered that really meant go for a walk. So I walked our usual walk route backwards and met up with them. The kids were in good moods by then, and Ethan fell asleep in the stroller on our way back, but blake told me the reason they went on a walk was because while they were finishing up dinner, kaylee decided to intentionally spill her milk on the floor and while she was making a further mess of the milk (splashing etc), ethan announced he had to go potty, which he did, but then did not put his undies back on, and was trying to scoot all over our white carpet on his not-wiped butt. Now, if that doesn't prove that blake loves me SO much, that he just took them on a walk by himself instead of interrupting my half-hour of kid-free time... well I don't know what does. that's true love.
speaking of love, the kids' favorite movie right now is the Lion King (perhaps because it's one of like 4 movies we own, and the only full-length movie they've ever seen). I am trying to teach them (okay, really just kaylee) the songs. Can You Feel the Love Tonight? Gonna Be a Mighty King... etc. It's going to be awesome. Especially if I can get them to do a little timon and pumba. I'm pretty sure my brothers and I can all recite at least 90% of that movie...
we did a triathlon the other day. we = blake and I, plus his cousin Elise and her friend. I got 15th place for women, and blake got 23rd for men. please, do not ask how many men and women competed, or I'd have to tell you 16 and 25. not quite like the good ol' days when brianne and I would get 2nd and 3rd for women in our age group (usually out of 3 or 4) and go home with trophies... but it was awesome. we didn't drown, or fall off our bikes (which I did manage to do at the last indoor triathlon I did so...) or get hit by a car on our run (it was at night, headlamps were required).
The supports under our island were installed today. that's the last of our "restoration" from the november flood. I signed the it's-all-done paperwork too, so we're really all done w/ that!
blake and kaylee got to go to a pajama party for kennedy's 2.5 year old party. ethan and I were a little under the weather, so we had to stay home which was a bummer, but check out this great picture our friend joelle took:
Saturday, February 16, 2013
vday pt 3
the post-lunch pics danielle took from the other day, wherein we played in the cars and frosted (and of course ate) cookies.
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